As someone who has always enjoyed an eclectic approach to relationships, I've often found myself dancing in a tango of dominance, alternating my steps between being a leading partner and a follower. In my intimate connections, the language of dominance can morph subtly into layers of closeness that I relish. Trust me, it's an intricate dance, and it needs people who know when to lead, when to follow, and when to just click and enjoy the rhythm of this polyphonic tune.
There's a certain satisfaction to being dominant—it's an intoxicating mix of control and lust. It's like holding the reins of a wild mare, guiding it through the paths your heart desires. But as a polyamorous man, dominance is not about overpowering or suppressing, but about trust and consent. It's about having your partner look into your eyes, seeing the wilderness there, and choosing to journey with you. It is a tangible affirmation of trust, a testament to the connection we share. And it’s through this dance that I have discovered a profound intimacy, an intimate understanding that cannot be replicated outside our unique constellation of love.
At the same time, the surrender to dominance is equally enticing. It's like being familiar with an addictive novel—you crave the story, but you also love not knowing what's going to happen next. Submitting to someone else's authority is a way of saying, "I trust you enough to let you control the narrative." In this surrender, you reveal your vulnerability, your deepest secrets, and they turn into bridges that connect you to your partners in ways you never expected.
In the end, both dominance and submission are but different melodies in the symphony we call intimacy. They are, in essence, about trust. The trust to take control and lead. The trust to relinquish control and follow. And most importantly, the trust to click and enjoy every note, every rhythm of this beautiful, intricate dance we call polyamory. |
